Question all can answer Is being tied up and beat considered having sex? Or if you are doing these things and the woman has an orgasm is that sex? Or if he uses her tits to get off but she doesn't swallow is that sex?

Hi honey.. You can't answer? Do you consider any of those sex? Or just foreplay or something?

I guess they could all be considered sex. But in the purest sense maybe they are not? I'm not a good person to ask, as I can't imagine having orgasm from being whipped. I love a good spanking as a form of foreplay but for me it's not going to cause an orgasm.

well, imo yes

All of it counts Its all a part of sex...

I consider almost anything to be sex. It makes life more exciting. Why diminish these things buy applying a lesser-than-the-best label to them? But that is just me. Also, I think everything is covered with semen in one form or another. We are swimming in a sea of sperm, even if just microbial... It's a big orgy really, and we're part of it.

We're all part of it. If it's all a big orgy and we're all part of it, why am I sitting here reading this instead of participating?

You are participating.. Right now some microbe is having sex with you while laying eggs on your skin. And someone at the factory probably spewed jizz all over your keyboard before shipping it off to you. Enjoy! Hahaha. ;-)

does it really matter? why does it matter?

It's subjective and user defined imo.

No. Because sex is defined as intercourse, and none of that is. In the broader term, yes, but if you mean is it 'sex' in the literal sense, no.

answer to the question uhh yea thats sex, great sex...being tied up and giving a tit fuck is still a fuck keyword *fuck

Hi Anti... I would say, that if no fluids exchange, you havent had sex. Thats just me. Masturbation is considered sex, as Gai pointed out to me last night.(Thanks Gai) It really is a user defined term. I think being tied up and whipped is sex related, but not sex. If you achieve orgasm from the sensations given suring the scene, I would classify it as masturbation thats done to you. But for my own personal "classification", if I am not penetrating you, I dont consider it having sex with you. (and I, in my own weird way, think if you are making a tunnel for tit fucking, it counts as penetration. I have a weird mind)

Hm. interesting question For me, I have a pretty big umbrella for what I regard as "sex." BDSM for me is sex. So yeah, spankings or beatings or canings, as does fingering or dry humping with clothes on to when me sweetie deep kisses me just right so that I orgasm, to anything penetrative from flesh to toys etc . . . I guess I regard certain activities as less intimate sexual play--I can do with strangers to friends--like spankings and beatings and bondage and so on. There isnt any penetration going on in this catagory, but voyeurism and exhibitionism of different flavors are fine. Versus more intimate sexual play or sex that I do with good friends or closer--the above plus fisting and fingering and toys. And kissing but not deep kissing. Versus saved only for the Special One in my life--all the above plus penetrative kissing, fluid exchange and penis insertion and love words. And d/s. What people consider as "sex" is very very subjective. . .. each people involved in the relationship should talk about their definations, boundaries, and expectations ahead of time as much as possible to reduce the number of "landmines" around.